Q: My mother wants me to send invitations to family and friends who are out of town and have said they will not be able to attend my wedding. I think we can save money by not sending them an invitation and would like to know your thoughts on this.

A: Even though they have expressed that they will not be able to attend the wedding, it is a good idea that you extend the invitation. Also keep in mind that the invitation can also serve as an announcement and/or keepsake of your wedding. You will find that the cost of a few extra invitations is minimal.