Q: I am having a formal wedding and would like to put “black tie” on the invitation. Do you have any suggestions on this?

A: This is a good way to let your guests know that your wedding is formal. However, another idea is to give your guests an option by putting “black tie optional” on the invitation instead. This option would allow guests who own and/or can afford to rent a tuxedo to wear one and other guests would know to wear a nice suit.